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Julio's Global South Travel 2005-2006. This e-space exists so that I can keep my friends and family informed. Also, it is for you to participate in my experiences by providing comments, ideas, and cheers.

Sunday, January 29, 2006

Thailand: Ko Phan Gan

I am on the beach, in the island that is famous for FULL MOON PARTIES. If you saw the movie "THE BEACH" with Leo DeCaprio you saw Ko Phan Gan. It exists totally to serve tourists. The entire island is not developed, but Hadrin where I am, is shop, to shop, to restaurant down each street. OK, there are only about 12 streets. So, relatively it is small, but busy, and for now, fun and with access to very, very expensive cappucinos.

It is 11:49pm and I got up at 7am to go to the beach. I also have to wake up at 3:45am to go to a Half Moon Party that started at 10pm. It have learned now that raves are best starting at 4am. By that point all the drunk people are gone and only the "true" ravers stay until noon of the next day, and then go to the after party that goes from noon until 5am of the 3rd day. Yes, yes, the important things I am learning in my travels.

Suffice to say to all of you who know and love me, everyone thinks I am a total drug addicts. Why? I apparently dance crazier than most people and with a lot more energy. Folks were asking what I was on the other night. It was funny. ***So that I am totally transparent I had had 2 Red Bulls. (These are soft drinks with tarine, a thing like caffeine, but stronger). They are not a drug, but rather an "energy drink" (love the FDA, love them). The byline for Red Bulls is - It Gives You Wings!*** For now I am enjoying this. It is not where I want to stay, but my friend Magda is here and we are having fun together. She leaves tomorrow and I will leave after my massage series ends.

Massage series? Is he studying massage? You ask. Well, not so much. See, Nicole who many of you know is a massage therapist and a close friend (www.equilibriomassage.com) suggested I have a thai massage a day for several days to feel the effects of it. And, I told Drew and Mindy and Melissa and Levi that I would have massages dedicated to them. So, 3 days ago I started my week series. I am committed to having a thai massage a day for 7 days. These occur after the sunset and my shower and before dinner. Today it was augumented with a lunch massage - a full 1 hour coconut oil, deep tissue massage. Look, my mom taught me never to take on the 10:30am-2pm sun and I have to do SOMETHING to pass the time. Tomorrow I am going to try the 1 hour foot massage since I will be dancing all night.

Other than the massage my days have consisted of coffee, beach, beach, beach, beach, coffee and, well, that's it really. LOTS OF WATER TOO. Oh yes, dancing in the middle of the night and spending time with Magda. I am having a nice time. Hehe. At this time I plan on staying here for the next 4 days to finish my massage series and then go north to a deserted beach.

SOME NEWS and WARNINGS:

TOP OF THE NEWS: RENY IS COMING!!! YAHOOOOO!!! SHE ARRIVES February 24, until March 7.

WARNINGS:
--The biggest Thai LGBT Festival is happening in Phuket in 3 days and I am NOT going. So please don't say things like - You were in Thailand and did not experience Gay Pride there? How could you? I will answer it now. Simple. I don't feel like it.

--The islands near where I am are world, galacticly famous for diving and reefs. I have not signed up for a course and don't intend to. The term used here is "dive slave" because people are so into it. So, when I return don't say things like - You were in Thailand and did not experience diving there? How could you? I will answer it now. Simple. I don't feel like it.

--The rocks near where I am are world, galacticly famous for climbers. I have not signed up for a course and don't intend to. So, when I return don't say things like - You were in Thailand and did not experience rock climbing there? How could you? I will answer it now. Simple. I don't feel like it.

That's it. I, of course, may change my mind about all of the above since I am here for 5 weeks, but in case I don't... Oh yes, not changing my mind about the gays. They are nice and all, and I even miss them so, but I am not getting on a 10 hour bus ride for anyone. Plus, I don't know how to be on long bus rides without Tricia anymore.

And, in case you did not know DREWZIE and I celebrated our 1 year anniversary on the 27th over the internet with video and voice overs. Very cool. Mindy even joined us. So, get YAHOOMESSENGER and we can see and talk to each other too!!!

Love,

Julio

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Wednesday, January 25, 2006

Why Is Everybody Going to Cambodia?

A couple of you sent this to me. It is a good article, not perfect, but good. Tonight is my last night in Cambodia and the SURVEY SAYS... A-OK ... a place to return to, more to discover, come ye', come all.

January 22, 2006

Why Is Everybody Going to Cambodia?

By MATT GROSS
JUST after Christmas in 1859, the French explorer Henri Mouhot left Bangkok to explore the uncharted regions of Indochina. It took him a year of hacking through brush and fending off leopards, leeches and wild elephants before he arrived at Angkor Wat, the jungle-smothered complex of temples deep inside the kingdom of Cambodia. Less than two years later, he died of malaria.

What took Mouhot a year can now be accomplished in little more than an hour, via Bangkok Airways' seven daily flights from the Thai capital to Siem Reap, home base for Angkor expeditions. Mouhot may have had to trudge three hours down a sandy path through dense forest to reach the ruins, but 21st-century visitors have the luxury of everything from tuk-tuks to Land Cruisers to an AS-350 Squirrel helicopter.

And while Mouhot lamented the temples' abandonment, today they are such popular tourist attractions that the measure of an expert Angkor guide is not his knowledge of Hindu and Buddhist cosmology, nor his mastery of English, French and Japanese, but his ability to show visitors the most popular sites - the Bayon, Phnom Bakheng, Ta Prohm and Angkor Wat itself - and have them wondering, at day's end, "Where was everybody else?"

But not all guides are expert at deftly avoiding the tourist crush, and there are frequently days when it seems everybody is in Cambodia. In 2004, international arrivals topped one million for the first time, a figure reached in 2005 by the end of September, according to the Ministry of Tourism.

In almost every part of the country, you can find a conceptually and architecturally ambitious hotel: In mountainous Ratanakiri, there's the Terres Rouges Lodge, a former provincial governor's lakeside residence that has, Time Asia said last July, "the best bar in the middle of nowhere." On the Sanker River in Battambang, Cambodia's second-largest city, there's La Villa, a 1930 house that in October opened as a six-room hotel filled with Art Deco antiques. And sometime this summer, you should be able to head south to Kep and stay at La Villa de Monsieur Thomas, a 1908 oceanfront mansion that's being transformed into a French restaurant ringed with bungalows.

And then there is Angkor Wat. Foreign visitors are flooding in - 690,987 paid entrance fees last year, up from 451,046 in 2004. And while there are no official figures as to how much each spends in Siem Reap, the town's dizzying array of luxury hotels - at least 10 by my count, ranging from the Raffles Grand Hotel d'Angkor to quirky boutiques like Hôtel de la Paix - testifies to the emergence of a new generation of high-end travelers, who not only demand round-the-clock Khmer massage but are also willing to pay $400 a day to hire a BMW L7 or $1,375 an hour for a helicopter tour.

Cambodia is not alone in its luxury revolution. Since the mid-1990's, the former French colonies of Southeast Asia have made enormous leaps in catering to tourists who prefer plunge pools to bucket showers. From the forests of Laos to the beaches of Vietnam to the ruins of Cambodia, you can find well-conceived, well-outfitted, well-run hotels that will sleep you in style for hundreds of dollars a night.

Change has come at an amazing pace. Take Luang Prabang, in Laos. This tidy hill town feels like a Hollywood set, with painted lamps glowing in French restaurants and brick walkways brightened by a yellow glow emanating from knee-high terra-cotta pots. Even the bare fluorescent tubes draped over lonely late-night streets do their part to make visitors feel as if they've arrived at the end of the world.

But it's not mere atmospherics they've found: Luang Prabang has high-end hotels to house a legion of W-worshipers, with enough bistros and boutiques to keep their credit cards on the verge of meltdown. There are spa treatments to succumb to, and Veuve Clicquot to toast with. This town of just 60,000 people is, almost all of a sudden, a luxury getaway.

Less than a decade ago, there were no hotels with infinity pools, no restaurants serving fricassee of wild boar, no silk merchants who took Visa. (Also, no paved roads.) The foreigners who climbed the 328 steps of Mount Phousi were usually backpackers who sought guidance from Lonely Planet's "Southeast Asia on a Shoestring." Today, the traveler with a Lonely Planet in one hand is likely to have a Mandarina Duck carry-on in the other.

Meanwhile, in Vietnam, well-heeled travelers are making pilgrimages to the Evason Hideaway outside Nha Trang, a coastal town 280 miles northeast of Ho Chi Minh City. The Evason, part of Six Senses, a small Bangkok-based chain of resorts, is without question Vietnam's top resort. The villas are enormous, with private plunge pools and wine cellars (and free Wi-Fi), and rock-star-style privacy is paramount: the mountain-backed resort is accessible only by boat.

The Evason is not Vietnam's sole outpost of escapism. Along its 2,140 miles of coastline, there's La Résidence in Hue, the Life Resort in Hoi An and the Furama in Da Nang. You can tour Ha Long Bay in the Emeraude, a replica of a 1920's steamer, or in the Hai Huong, a reproduction of a classic junk. The Victoria chain has been setting up four-star hotels in unusual inland spots, such as Can Tho, Chau Doc and Sapa. And the Evason is already at work on a second resort, in the southern hill town of Da Lat.

But in a country like Vietnam, still poor despite a vibrant economy, the luxury business is a tricky balancing act: How over the top can you go without seeming to take advantage?

The Evason walks that line with the deftness of a tightrope walker. The 17 villas feel inserted into, not imposed upon, the landscape. Motor vehicles are nowhere to be seen: everyone walks or bikes. Is this eco-tourism? Maybe, but when you're at a wine-tasting in a rock cave, or scraping grilled curried lobster tail from its shell, or spotting parrotfish and sea urchins in the coral-lined bay, it feels like something else entirely.

DESPITE all the changes in Cambodia, the immigration desk at Siem Reap International Airport remains a bastion of indifference. When I passed through in October, 10 officials sat behind the visa counter, wordlessly gazing at a mob of tourists, who were hurriedly filling in application forms, fumbling for passport photos and $20 bills, and in the absence of any signs or personnel to direct them, wondering where to go next.

Outside, however, it was a different story: A guest assistant from Hôtel de la Paix carried my bag through the parking lot - past a new terminal designed to handle 1.5 million passengers a year when it opens this summer - to a Lexus S.U.V. As we drove into town, listening to Morcheeba on the car's iPod Mini, the driver and I discussed development on the airport road: I could remember when it had few hotels and restaurants; he could remember when it had none.

At la Paix, an artfully serene white palace designed by the landscape architect Bill Bensley, another assistant led me into the expansive arts lounge, where I sipped fresh orange juice and split my attention between the movie "Indochine," which was being projected on the wall, and the youthful staff members, who moved about with a surprising sureness of purpose.

Soon, an assistant took me to my room - dark woods, creamy fabrics, functioning Wi-Fi and another iPod - and cheerfully helped me plan my stay: a trip to Angkor Wat (with an "excellence guide," he wrote on his notepad) and, almost as important, a local SIM card for my cellphone ("first thing in the morning"). I wandered to the second-floor pool, which flowed like a river from the spa and down to the courtyard, at whose center grew a knotty ficus. Everywhere: calm. The hotel was aptly named.

This was a Cambodia so far removed from the one I'd encountered when I first visited, in March 1997, that I began to wonder if I was even in the same country. Back then, Cambodia was the Wild West, with Phnom Penh its Deadwood. My hotel was the Morakat, which had two room-service menus, one for food, the other for girls. My spa treatment was an unceremonious ear-cleaning at a Vietnamese-run barber shop. (I still have nightmares.) I dined on streetside fried noodles and went to a pitch-black nightclub, where a friend and I were shown to our table by a tuxedoed midget with an enormous flashlight.

Oh, and the day after I arrived, unidentified assailants threw grenades into a crowd of 200 people demonstrating outside the National Assembly, killing at least 16 and injuring more than 100.

To say that Cambodia has come a long way is to state the obvious. Gone are the Khmer Rouge, the Vietnamese occupation, the United Nations democracy-restoration period and the era of warring prime ministers (the current prime minister, Hun Sen, came out on top in 1997). Angkor Wat has been swept clean of land mines, and it is generally safe to travel city streets at night.

When I visited Siem Reap in December 1999, it was far from bustling, and visitors to the temples could climb atop the rubble of Ta Prohm unbothered by security guards. The Grand, which dates back to 1932, had been renovated and reopened by the Raffles Group only two years before, and Angkor Village was the resort for in-the-know tourists and expatriates who wanted something nicer than a guesthouse.

Now more than 100 hotels serve tourists of all budgets. The Grand has been joined by a Sofitel, Le Meridien and the Sokha Angkor. On the boutique side, Angkor Village must now contend with la Paix, La Résidence d'Angkor, the FCC Angkor, the Shinta Mani and an Aman resort, the Amansara. By the end of this month, the One Hotel plans to open its doors - or, rather, its door: There's just one room, a duplex with flat-screen TV, iBook, Wi-Fi and a whirlpool.

These changes are perhaps hardly surprising, given Angkor Wat's popularity and the increasing adventurousness of luxury travelers.

"People want to take their lifestyle and life standard with them," said Grant Thatcher, the publisher of Luxe City Guides, a series of directories to chic treats in Asia. "People don't want to just sit in a flea-bitten rat hole and get eaten by mosquitoes."

His guides - to silversmiths in Bali, Dutch colonial antiques in Sri Lanka, orchids in Bangkok - are fast becoming indispensable for their up-to-date intelligence (each is reissued every six months) and cheeky, Daily Candy-in-Hong Kong voice. (On the Metropole, in Hanoi: "This grand old Gertie has finally got off her colonial bum and begun an upgrade.")

Luxe does not yet offer a Cambodia guide, but the entrepreneurs of Siem Reap are doing their best to prepare for it. Want to see Angkor Wat by hot-air balloon? No problem. Is $1 too little to pay for a krama, the traditional Cambodian checked scarf? A crinkly silk boutique version can run more than $50. Want your entire stay videotaped, then edited into a feature-length film? Just ask the One's front desk.

It's in the realm of culture that Siem Reap really excels, and to a degree that would be surprising in any tourist locale, let alone one dominated by one of the greatest and most perplexing artistic achievements of all, Angkor Wat. On weekends there are cello concerts, and in December "Les Nuits d'Angkor," a blend of ballet and traditional Khmer dance, takes place in front of the temple itself. My October stay coincided with the Angkor Photography Festival, a week of exhibitions, workshops and exclusive soirées.

Just add a soothing glass of pastis, and it's easy to imagine you're in a hub of sophistication, shuttling between cocktail parties, fancy restaurants and gallery openings with a crowd of like-minded travelers. Except that everywhere in Siem Reap - and throughout Cambodia - are reminders of the country's wretched history, crushing poverty and political mismanagement. Take two steps outside your hotel, and you'll find people sleeping in the streets, some of them missing limbs. (Still, there are fewer today than in the past.)

Corruption is rampant. Villagers are routinely evicted at gunpoint from their land by the wealthy and well-connected, critics of Hun Sen's policies are liable to find themselves imprisoned, and the leader of the small political opposition, Sam Rainsy, who organized the tragic 1997 demonstration, lost his parliamentary immunity a year ago and fled the country to escape defamation charges; last month, a court convicted him in absentia. The belief among many foreigners living in Cambodia is that this constitutional monarchy is really a totalitarian kleptocracy, its officials enriching themselves at the expense of aid organizations (which heavily subsidize the government's budget), not to mention the long-suffering Cambodian people.

Which makes it all the more stunning and delightful and sad that those Cambodians are, for the most part, some of the sweetest people you'll ever meet. Show kindness to a driver, to a bellhop, to the newly middle-class guy drinking a Heineken next to you at the FCC bar, and you'll have an instant friend. After all the dehumanizing treatment they've put up with over the last 30 years, Cambodians, it seems to me, just want to be considered human beings, equals despite the financial disparity between them and the average foreign tourist.

It's enough to make you feel guilty as you soak in your freestanding terrazzo tub at la Paix, listening to Miles Davis on the iPod. But the high-end hotels are all too aware that their room rates - $200 to as much as $1,900 -can surpass what the average Cambodian earns in a year. La Paix and its sister, the Shinta Mani, a hotel and hospitality training institute, offer a menu of "community-based activities" that lets tourists finance anything from school supplies ($12) to a breeding pair of piglets ($60) to the building of a new house ($980). The One Hotel plans a similar "Good Karma" package.

F OR some people, it may be hard to imagine Cambodia as a luxury traveler's paradise. Are there really tourists willing to shell out hundreds, even thousands, of dollars a night to see Angkor Wat - knowing that their fancy hotels will not be like Jamaican all-inclusives, conveniently keeping the gritty outside world at bay?

I posed the question to Toby Anderson, manager of the Amansara, possibly the nicest - and, at $650 a night and up, definitely the most expensive - resort in town. A former royal residence, the Amansara, with its single-story modernist architecture, still feels like a swinging-60's pad. You can easily imagine Norodom Sihanouk, the former king, standing by the pool with a flute of Champagne in one manicured hand.

I followed Mr. Anderson, a tall, fair-featured Australian, to the library, as he rebuffed my suggestion that his guests might have different expectations of Cambodia.

"They're well read, they know the history and situation," he said. "They're looking for a Cambodian experience.

"I was a backpacker once," he added. "I still like to backpack. I don't know whether the mindset is that different. Does being able to stay in the Amansara change what you experience?"

Indeed, he was probably right. Once you ride the vintage Mercedes limo outside the gates of the Amansara compound, you are unmistakably, unavoidably in Cambodia: crumbling roads, frequent floods, implacable heat and tour guides who coolly unload personal tales of Khmer Rouge horror. It's not as if you can, by dint of a fat wallet, hide from this reality.

And why would you want to? The draw for millions of people is not just plush beds and nimble-fingered masseuses; it's these three countries' uniquely messy histories and the ways all are struggling to move forward.

In the end, what that fat wallet does get you is simply the opportunity to travel - which is, as Henri Mouhot understood, the greatest luxury of all. "Even if destined here to meet my death," he wrote in his journals, "I would not change my lot for all the joys and pleasures of the civilized world."

If You Go

GETTING THERE

You can fly from Newark to Siem Reap on Singapore Air, 800-742-3333, www.singaporeair.com, (with a stop in Singapore, a 22-hour trip). Fares start about $1,760 for executive economy and $6,365 for business, with taxes.

GETTING AROUND

The telephone code for Cambodia is 855.

Since Siem Reap has no formal taxi service, the most common means of transport is the tuk-tuk, or motorized rickshaw, which offers little protection from rain, dust, noise and heat. Still, they're convenient. Most rides around town cost less than $2 (generally, dollars are preferred to riels).

Renting a car is far more relaxing. Your hotel can arrange anything from a four-wheel drive to a vintage limousine. A Toyota Land Cruiser with driver will run $17 an hour at Hôtel de la Paix; the BMW at the Raffles Grand is $400 a day.

To see the temples by helicopter, contact Angkor Scenic Flights, near the Old Market (12-814-500 angkorscenicflights.com). An eight-minute Angkor Wat flyby costs $68 a person (three to five people); a 14-minute flight is $120. Charter flights can get you quickly to temples that might take all day to reach by land, for $1,375 an hour, plus taxes.

WHERE TO STAY

Outside Phnom Penh, Cambodians are not big on addresses. Once I asked a receptionist the name of the street her hotel was on. "I forget," she said after a moment, "because I don't care."

At the 74-year-old Raffles Grand Hotel d'Angkor, the past is on display everywhere you look: the white-gravel driveway, the iron-cage elevator, the colonial-style bathroom fixtures and ceiling fans. The restaurant requires men to wear jackets at dinner. Still, it's far from stuffy, with visitors drinking gin and tonics in the Elephant Bar. The hotel is at 1 Vithei Charles de Gaulle, Khum Svay Dang Kum, 63-963-888, www.raffles.com. Doubles start at $360, but for an extra-special time, book the 3,180-square-foot villa ($1,900 a night).

Though Hôtel de la Paix (Sivatha Boulevard, 63-966-000, hoteldelapaixangkor.com) is new, its roots run back a half-century to the original Paix, an Art Deco hotel that stood on the same spot; its owner was a guerilla fighter -turned-businessman named Dap Chhuon. The $400-a-night duplex suites have rooftop terraces the size of a Manhattan one-bedroom and, of course, every room has an iPod. Standard doubles from $195.

The Amansara, on the road to Angkor (63-760-333, amanresorts.com), may be the anti-Grand: Modern rather than Classical, intimate rather than sprawling, casual rather than formal. The suites, starting at $650, are big enough to have their own courtyards. Twelve new suites have plunge pools ($850). Two meals a day are included, as well as a car and driver for visiting the temples.

WHERE TO EAT AND DRINK

While Cambodian food looks a bit like that of neighboring Thailand and Vietnam - curries and stews, noodle dishes and lots of rice - it's rarely as tasty. Still, the most ambitious restaurants in town like Meric, at Hôtel de la Paix (63-966-000) are trying to resurrect Cambodian fine dining. Paul Hutt, Meric's chef (and a friend of mine) is devoted to digging up unusual ingredients, like dried snake, and glamming up traditional peasant food, like rice flakes and prahok, the ubiquitous and pungent fish paste. The Khmer set menu is usually $35 a person (many restaurants price in dollars).

For classic Cambodian food, Khmer Kitchen, in an alley near the Old Market called the Passage (12-763-468), may be the best in town. It's not fancy, but the menu of simple curries, fried pumpkin and spicy meat salads called larb was good enough for Mick Jagger and, at about $12 for dinner for two, cheap enough for his fans.

Dead Fish Tower (Sivatha Street, 12-630-377, talesofasia.com/cambodia-deadfish.htm) is a bizarre Cambodian take on dinner theater. Upstairs, you can watch traditional dancing and downstairs, you can feed the crocodiles. (They get their fish raw - happily, you get it curried.) Dinner for two is about $15.

In a more modern vein, there's Abacus (Om Khun Street, 12-644-286). Get a table amid the silk lanterns in the garden, and sample entrees like the ostrich in red-wine sauce ($13).

There are a million bars in Siem Reap, many of them on what has come to be known as Pub Street, and most filled with Australian backpackers. But nearby there's also Laundry Bart (276 Group 10, Module 1 Village, east of the Old Market, 16-962-026), a slick, dark lounge that feels like the East Village circa 1995.

Linga, near the Old Market Across from the One Hotel (12-246-912, lingabar.com), is a straight-friendly gay bar with expertly mixed cocktails.

MATT GROSS is working on a novel about 1950's Cambodia.

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Tuesday, January 24, 2006

VIETNAM: Part II (Guest Writer - Vicky Rateau

Enjoying my last few days of vacation...

I think the best way to capture the Vietnam experience is to share memorable moments. At this point, you've already heard about the "artic cruise" and our eating our way through Hanoi. I'll share some other memorable moments in upcoming emails. We've got a little time before we hit Angkor Wat again for sunset so we're cooling away in an internet cafe. (Oh, if you didn't know, my vacation got extended to the end of this week.) For the time we have left, I thought I'd share this song...

Julio and I have have composed a song to the tune of the "Do, Re, Me, Fa, So, La" from the SOUND OF MUSIC, titled "the Sound of Vietnam". It goes as such (with commentary in parentheses to go unsung) --

--Dong, a bill, a Vietnamese bill
(Vietnamese currency)

--Ray, a drop of golden sun
(which Julio wished for our entire time in northern Vietnam. We've been blessed with daily sun since January 9 when we reached Hue though. For the record, I had plenty of sun until Julio arrived in Hanoi.)

--Minh, a guide who sees squid in rocks
(Minh was our junk boat guide in Halong Bay who was always saying to us, "do you see...(insert one) a dragon, a lovely lady carrying a child, an old, wise man in... in those rocks?" In response, we'd twist our heads and necks every which way to try to see what he was pointing at in the caves. He also would be the one to serve us our food from the waiter and he often mistakenly called something "squid" (from fried potatoes to pork)

--Pho, a bowl on every street
(pho is the morning breakfast for most Vietnamese. We had many but preferred French baguettes with Vietnamese coffee. The most memorable pho event, dare I share this, was eating pho AND chicken on the street. Generally, we avoided chicken. It's actually prohibited in restaurants in Vietnam because of avian flu. The only other place we ate chicken was in my cousin's eco-friendly restaurant where the chicken are raised in the backyard.)

--Son, a city full of stones
(My Son was a Cham village from the 10th-12th century that really was just a rubble of rocks. We recommend you skip it if you're ever in Hoi An and go to Angkor Wat. However, it was intereting to explore the Cham ethnic group and their history. They've been essentially wiped out in Vietnam and any survivors are strongly discriminated against.)

--Lac, a man who is deaf and mute
(Mr. Lac was a deaf and mute restaurant owner in Hue who's daughter made the best coffee we had in Vietnam, and we had some pretty good coffee. He was a great conversationalist, nonetheless, and arranged bikes for us and told us where to spend our time in Hue. The bike trip made for a memorable moment. More later.)

--CoffEE, a drink with "milk" and bread
(obviously, our much loved Vietnamese coffee had to make it into our song since we drank it 2-3 times a day. Oklay, it doesn't totally fit the rhythm of the song but hey...)

--That will bring us back to Ha, Hue, Hoi, Ho, Home.
(We noticed all the towns we chose to visit started with H's: Hanoi, Halong Bay, Hue, Hoi An, Ho Chi Minh City. And, for me, I get to go home.)

Okay, for Julio's blog readers, this may not compare with the fantastic and creative Drew's and Julio's song "It's all about aloo" (sung to the tune of "It had to be you" or Julio and Tricia's numerous versions of "Little Town, Quiet Village" from Beauty and the Beast. But, we had fun composing it although it took days to figure out what to do with coffee and "tea."

More later. We're doing well. Julio's totally enjoying spending time with my (blood and extended) family in Cambodia but eager to rest after our trip on a Thai beach. Lucky him. I'm back to DC on Friday, to work on Monday.

Vicky

Saturday, January 21, 2006

Vietnam - Part I (Guest Writer VICKY RATEAU)

Dear friends,

I've had severe writers' block for the past few weeks. Since I started my much needed vacation, I've written 1 journal entry, 5 or so relatively short emails, and 4 laundry lists. Just one week left in this glorious holiday and I'm beginning to come back to earth. I feel bad for not having finished a blog entry for my traveling partner Julio's blog before we left Vietnam but it wasn't for lack of trying. I kept getting diverted by french pastries, Vietnamese ca phe (coffee), and the yummy food. But here I go... blog entry for the unitiated. (Note, I'm doing double duty since I've been silent for so long. I'm sending this email to friends and family, too, to reassure them I'm still alive and having a blast.)

First to reassure all of Julio's loved ones with what is probably first on their mind -- Julio is doing alright. I would have been really worried having gotten his "Hitting a wall" email after four months of travel, as you probably were, but I got to witness and take part in his/our processing and working through emotions, needs, and thoughts so I can reassure all who share the love for Jules that he's okay. I have to say I totally admire him for traveling for four months before hitting a wall. Getting up and starting something new in a new location every day is tiring. I hit a wall after three weeks of traveling and barely wanted to leave our air conditioned hotel room bed in Ho Chi Minh City. Seriously, for three nights and two days, I happily buried in our sheets -- with Julio for most of the time -- and watched sappy movies and the Golden Globes while the city and its inhabitents bustled outside and 5 million monuments and places awaited us. (We did emerge for coffee, french baguettes, pho, and meals at the same Kim's Cafe -- a hole in the wall that served delicious food one block away from our hotel.)

Ho Chi Minh City also marked the first time Julio and I were actually separated for more than a bathroom or shower break (Julio chose to walk home from a coffee shop across town while I hopped on a moto.) I think this is testimony to how much I've enjoyed every minute with him discovering Vietnam and experiencing my family and Cambodia in a new frame. For three weeks of new experiences, it's been really reassuring and fun to have Julio along for the ride. Each day involves new information, traveling to a new location using an unfamiliar medium or route, settling in a new "home", finding a new place to eat that is good, and in Cambodia, processing some new piece of information about my family. And, of course, this kind of travel involves processing "new" information about one's self.

I'm writing this email for both Julio's blog and for my own friends and family so, in this email, I also wanted give you my impressions, particularly of our adventures and travel through Vietnam, especially since we haven't written much about it. It was the first time I've been to this country and it's the first place I've gone where I don't speak the language. Julio and I met Hanoi -- a city I've fallen in love with. It's a totally magical city where old men continue the glamour of wearing 1930's hats and three piece suits, where the smell of coffee, freshly baked french breads, and hosed down streets fill the morning air, beautiful pagodas and temples greet you at every turn, delicious eats can be found every 100 feet, literally, and French, Chinese and regional architecture blend together even seeming beautiful when decaying. Cambodia for the first week (before Julio arrived) then Hanoi the second were a total trea t for all the senses. I admit that you have to work your way through the noise of millions of motos flying through the streets but once you do, this is a gorgeous and charming city. We did a lot of sight seeing in Hanoi, mostly to old communist haunts or commemorations of Ho Chi Minh or the "liberation" of Vietnam, ate green tangerine sorbet, spare ribs where the meat was so tender as to fall of the bone, the regional specialty cha ca, initiated Julio to his first bowl of morning pho (Vietnamese noodle soup), ate lots of Vietnamese subs, french baguettes, and tried one of each locally brewed bia (beer).

Did I mention this was as much a culinary tour as it was to learn about the politics and people of this communist country?

From Hanoi we traveled north to the Vietnam-China border and boarded a rebuilt fisherman's 'junk' boat for a three day cruise amidst misty, limestone islands. It was totally breathtaking and would have fulfilled my dream of visiting this area completely -- a dream I've had since watching Indochine in 1993 -- were it not for the cold that made Julio lovingly name this the "Artic cruise and both of us wear every layer of clothing we had. (But that didn't stop him from jumping into the salty water for a swim one day.)

Er, I'm going to have to continue the stories of us traveling south, then to Cambodia, at a later time. Dinner calls.

Vicky

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Cambodia: Phnom Penh

Again, I have skipped Vietnam and I hope to come back to it.

Vicky and I bused it from Ho Chi Minh City, vietnam to Phnom Penh, Cambodia. It was a new experience to cross a border in a bus. We had to stop and get checked out of Vietnam and then get checked into Cambodia. All in all pretty painless since we had chosen the expensive bus ($12 versus $5) and they took care of most things for us. It did give me a chance to get a couple of snaps of the border and its patrol (if you can call it that) for Jason.

We arrived in Phnom Penh and Vicky's aunt and dad picked us up on the corner of a busy street. Our 25 minutes of wait included Vicky using a public phone, which was exciting. A public phone in Cambodia is really a private phone. A person has a wireless phone and s/he sits on the corner of the street with it and a sign with the rates. You tell them where you want to call, they dial it for you, the call is completed and you pay them for the numbers of minutes used. It is pretty effective.

other than that we were asked by about 100 tuk-tuk (Cambodia's rickshaws are a motorcycle with a wagon in the back) drivers if we wanted a ride. Vicky speaks Khmer and it was really nice to not have to deal with them on my end. Vicky's aunt arrived with style. She made a U-turn in the middle of an extremely busy street with no compunction whatsoever. She just turned and traffic on all sides stopped dead on their tracks. Vicky had warned me about this. Which brings me to Vicky's warnings...

Since Vicky and I decided to do this travel she has warned me about different aspects of her wonderful family. The first thing I received was a two-page biography on the family members, some of their history and some of the friendly family dynamics. Since then, I have heard well over 3,000,000 warning and details. Some include:

-my father is not really my father.
-my uncle is not really my uncle.
-my aunt is not really my aunt.
-my little cousin is actually my uncle has two mommies and a daddie who all live in the same house.
-no, i did not know that man that lives in my uncle's house was the grandfather of my non-aunt.
-say NO to the gardens! (Then of course, after a lot of Khmer was spoken I asked Vicky where we were going and she said, "the gardens.") She is still working on saying NO to the elders in her family. It is really sweet.
-my dad has gone through monkhood, but is was the express service. Instead of 3 days they did it for him in one.

And the best...
-you may not know this, but my name is not just Vicky. I have three different names. And, I was actually born in France even though I am Cambodian and American.

As it stands I love her family. They are a riot and yes, they have a ton of different inter-relationships. But, beyond titles and birth rights they all have immense hearts and have treated me wonderfully with lots of hot showers, a great bed, cable TV, rides everywhere and LOTS, and LOTS, and LOTS of food ranging from US imported oscar meyer sausage to some amazing Cambodian cuisine.

The most touching aspect of Vicky's family for me is how everyone in the house has come together. Her Uncle, Dr. Ghanty, is a lot like my grandfather was. In the last 11 years he has taken in nearly 30 people whose lives range from kids who lost their parents, to mothers who lost their children, to kids who need an education but whose parents cannot offer it, to girls who were going to be trafficked into prostitution. Different cases require different things and these range from paying for schooling and colleges, covering health care costs, buying a home, and infinetly making sure the house is open to all from over the years for a meal everyday at lunch and dinner. He stands firmly in the heart of her family who was severely affected by the autrocities of the Khmer Rouge who dessimated much of the country's population when it was trying to turn Cambodia into a communist country from 1975-1979. He is a man who understands pain and suffering and who sees that opportunity can change the world and is committed to giving so many people just that. He succeeded as a high ranking economics professor in the States and after the Khmer Rouge and the violence of the subsequent Vietnamese subsided he returned and has since helped out his brethren. Now he takes care of the needs of many and teaches economics to working people at a Cambodian university. He is truly an ispiration.

Phnom Penh itself was nice. We spent a lot of time with family. We also had a chance to see the Royal Palace, the Mekong River, the Genocide Museum, and a couple of the markets and go out for a drinks one of the nights. It was a good time. Ok, the Genocide Museum was not so great, but the rest was. Apparently the communists consider the Khmer Rouge situation a black eye for the movement. Whatever the situation this was the ugliest kind of human behavior. For more, see Yale's research on the Genocide in Cambodia - http://www.yale.edu/cgp/

You should also know that a new king has been crowned. He was not the next in line of sons, but the government wanted to find a neutral person to have the role and chose him. Cool note? He is a ballet dancer and I have learned that in this case he is in fact - FAMILY!!!! Speculations? Not! I have seen pictures. it's true!!!

We are currently in Angkor Wat one of the 7 wonders of the world and will be here for the next 4 days.

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Monday, January 16, 2006

Lost

I wanted to share with everyone the beautiful poem that Jess sent to me. It is super appropriate right now. Thank You!!!

"Lost," by David Wagoner from Collected Poems 1956-1976 © Indiana University Press.

Lost

Stand still. The trees ahead and bushes beside you
Are not lost. Wherever you are is called Here,
And you must treat it as a powerful stranger,
Must ask permission to know it and be known.
The forest breathes. Listen. It answers,
I have made this place around you.
If you leave it, you may come back again, saying Here.
No two trees are the same to Raven.
No two branches are the same to Wren.
If what a tree or a bush does is lost on you,
You are surely lost. Stand still. The forest knows
Where you are. You must let it find you.

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Hitting a Wall (Not literally, but that's possible too)

It is my last day in Vietnam and I have given you, the people of the world, nothing. I am so sorry I have not written more about this beautiful communist country, its amazing food, and how I actually have learned to love a piece of colonialism. I am an honest person and I cannot lie. Without the French my morning baguettes with outstanding Vietnamese coffee would not be the same, and how I love the baguettes. Don't judge me for this, if you can.

I wanted to write about Vietnam, but instead the fact that I have hit a wall in this "wwwoooorrrrrddllly experience" seems more relevant, more real, more at the core of how I am experiencing everything.

I am tired. I miss my mom and dad and my little brothers and my aunt. I miss Drewzie. I miss Tricia and Tonja, Anston, Jess, Nicole and Clarissa, and so so so so so so many people I love so much. I miss Ana in Brazil with Carolina and Dario. And, I cannot explain to you in words how much I want to be in Washington DC with Mindy and Melissa and little Levi. I keep asking myself what the hell I am doing so far away when all the people I love are home. I have cried several times wanting, needing to be with the people I love.

There are, of course, lots of reason for this. Some include:

--India was exhausting and I have needed a place to truly rest easy. No, I don't mean a beach in some Paradise Island. I have access to all of those. No, I don't mean a 5 star hotel with sauna and a massage. I did that. No, I don't mean exotic meals with the best spices ever and amazing coffees from distand regions in the world. I have all of those things, and everything else within 5 hours and $100 of where I am. I mean the comfort of home. I mean waking up at my mom's house, Drew's apartment, Mindy's house, Tricia's, Nicole's etc (G-d, I have a lot of places where I feel comfortable, how lucky am I!!!) and just strolling to the kitchen and having coffee. I mean sitting in the garden knowing my brothers are at school. I mean cleaning Levi's slober from my shoulder after burping him, eating at Teaism with Mindy and Melissa. I mean the most mundane things that let me rest easily and calmly. These are the places that I want to rest in. If I could only go there for 2 weeks and than come back.

--I need to find a purpose. This travel around the world and blah, blah, blah is great and all, but I need a purpose in life. I NEED to know that what I am doing has a greater purpose than me. I need to know that I am building something. I need it to be concrete. I have met with NGOs doing anti-trafficking work. I will meet with more. Maybe the solutions for now is to do just that, meet with them like hell. But, I think I need to know my meetings have a greater purpose than learning and becoming a better, smarter person who does social justice work. I want to win a campaign, raise a million dollars, build an organization.

--I am my mother's son. I NEED TO DO SOME WORK. Oh my g-d! This vacationing thing is madenning. Beyond purpose, I just need to be useful, practical, and clean something. I have been fighting the urge to start cleaning the hotel room. I want wipe the tables where I eat, go in the back and do the dishes. I need to organize something. It's crazy, but I want to do that so badly.

--I can no longer look at monuments. If I see another statue of anybody I will go crazy. Of course, I am to go to Angkor Wat in 4 days. It's a wonder of the world, and this is how I am feeling. I need to find an activity that takes me away from monuments.

--The Love Boat is has lost it's exciting and new qualities. Talking about travel is all about new experiences, new civilizations, boldly going everywhere. Did you know that even new experiences get boring and routine if you have one every 10 minutes? It's like a line from Into the Woods - But if I life where made of moments, you'd never know you had one. (G-d, how many pop culture references can I person put in 3 sentences?)

Is this just about the grass been greaner on the other side? Not so much. It's that I have been on this side of the garden for a long time.

Today this all means a few things:

--This is normal. This wall was expected and I am committed to witnessing and feeling my way through it, as I have with everything else.

--This is information. With every feeling I learn more and more who I am and what is important to me. My mother has for so long been the pillar of family values and connections in our family, a model really. Today, it is clearer than it has ever been to me that family is everything. I was brought up knowing this. I come from strong family oriented culture. But, when it has now clicked for me in a different way - beyond culture, teachings or the usual "home is where the heart is." These pieces of information are critical when you set off in this kind of experience. They emerge along with knowing that I don't like to move around when I travel. I NEED a sense of purpose in life. I like to see the world with others (Drew, Tricia, Vicky) and the world comes alive to me differently. I like being alone. I love my quiet time. I love the lights of the big city and the peace of the morning in little towns. I love the beach and I could live there. I enjoy the woods and I like to visit them. Some of these things are new, some of them are just a validation of what I already knew.

So much of this travel has been about getting in touch with myself again after several years of loosing my own intuition, and therefore this is all very valuable.

--I feel no pressure either way. These feelings and my subsequet decisions are not about anyone but me. If I go back to the US today it's my decision. If I decide to do this for 10 years, it is also my decision. (Yes, if I decide on the latter I realize this decision will have consequences beyond my imagination from many key individuals in my life - hehe.) I am going to watch myself for the next couple of days and see what happens. I will probably go directly to the beaches of Thailand after Angkor Wat and then come back around for meetings with NGOs in the big cities since beach will help me reconnect with myself. We will see. I figure if I am unhappy at the beach, a sure place where I can sit at ease with myself, than something is definitely not right.

For now I am here. Vicky is an outstanding travel partner. She has been really supportive of my process. She has also taken care of a lot of the logistical madness of travel and that has made this time better. G-d, how lucky I am, how so lucky I am to have such wonderful people in my life.

That's it for now folks. At some point I will write about Vietnam, maybe even later today. For now know this...Vietnam is a must in your travel list. Drew and I have already added it to ours. Eddie, you must come here next. You will melt with all the political history of this place.

Love to all, as always,

Julio

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Friday, January 13, 2006

Hanoi

Hanoi is the capital of Vietnam. To me it was a reasonably quiet city with very interesting street life and lots and lots of bikes and mopeds. Vicky and I spent our days there seeing many sites and committed to what is our SUPER GASTRO-INTESTINAL TOUR of SOUTHEAST ASIA. We balanced seeing all the sites dedicated to Ho Chi Minh, the man responsible for making sure Vietnam became communist, and in 48 hours eating at about 10 restaurants and having 3 meals
on the street.

The city is filled with communist red flags and posters and signs about everyone working hard and making Vietnman a better place. In the morning city wide announcements are made over a loud speaker. Also, the city is rich with the history of Vietnam's heroes and all they did against the Chinese, the French, the Americans and basically everyone one else who tried to colonize, control and make money off of Vietnam in some way. This "outsider" history is very evident and seen everywhere from the fact that older Vietnamese speak French, to Chinese customs to reminants of the US vietnman war such as an American B-52 crashed plane in the middle of a housing community.

Hanoi equaled Ho Chi Minh (the person, not the city). His museum, his monuments, and his embalmed body are all part of the landscape of Hanoi. He is revered and referred to as Uncle Ho by the Vietnamese.

A familiar site in Vietnam are sidewalk restaurants. Mini plastic seats and tables are set on sidewalks in front of restaurant fronts and that is where the Vietnamese enjoy foods and teas. Of course, we participated in this custom and made sure to have pho, a traditional Vietnamese soup with noodles and meat made for breakfast and basically any other occasion.

In the streets we had yummies such as the soupt, baguettes with pate, butter, meats, and veggies. In restaurants we had lots of fish in amazing sauces, green tangerine deserts, lots of Vietnamese coffee, chaca fish (yummy fish in butter), lots of rice, and yummy spare ribs and sea bass. All were absolutely divine.

We left Hanoi, 1 kilo heavier and went off to Halong Bay for our Arctic Cruise of the bay. Up next!

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Thursday, January 12, 2006

Arrival

I reached Vietnam on the 6th of January. I left India on the 5th of January at night and had a very, very sad good-bye with Drewzie. My departure included a 1.5 hour wait after I said goodbye to Drew. I was stuck and could not go out to see him. It also included me looking like a fool crying my little eyes once I set on the plane. Leaving Drewzie and India all at the same time was tough. The power of India stays with you and saying goodbye to your boyfriend after not seeing him for 3 months, spending 24 hours a day with him for 4 weeks and knowing you will not see him for a month is VERY HARD!!!And, it was also what I set out to do and so off I went...

The first leg was 3 hours from Delhi to Bangkok and then 2 hours to Hanoi. I walked around the Bangkok airport, hung out with the airforce folks going to Iraq at my gate, and worked on some SUDOKU. Not very exciting, but I had to pass the time.

Vicky was waiting for me when I arrived. She had been there the morning before for 6 hours, thinking I was coming on the 5th. It was very sad, a misunderstanding on dates. It was so nice to arrive to someone ina new country. It was so nice to see Vicky, someone so so so dear to my heart and someone I seldom get to spend time with. We got on a taxi and we were off to Hanoi.

Hanoi next...

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VIETNAM: Overview by Lonely Planet

I thought I would start you with with a bit from www.lonelyplanet.com From here on I will give you my own perspective of the country.

Most visitors to Vietnam are overwhelmed by the sublime beauty of the country's natural setting: the Red River Delta in the north, the Mekong Delta in the south and almost the entire coastal strip are a patchwork of brilliant green rice paddies tended by women in conical hats.

There are some divine beaches along the coast, while inland there are soaring mountains, some of which are cloaked by dense, misty forests. Vietnam also offers an opportunity to see a country of traditional charm and rare beauty rapidly opening up to the outside world.

Four great philosophies and religions have shaped the spiritual life of the Vietnamese people: Confucianism, Taoism, Buddhism and Christianity. Over the centuries, Confucianism, Taoism and Buddhism have melded with popular Chinese beliefs and ancient Vietnamese animism to form what is known as Tam Giao (or 'Triple Religion').

Vietnamese (kinh) is the official language of the country, although there are dialectic differences across Vietnam. There are dozens of different languages spoken by various ethnic minorities and Khmer and Loatian are spoken in some parts. The most widely spoken foreign languages in Vietnam are Chinese (Cantonese and Mandarin), English, French and Russian, more or less in that order.

Popular artistic forms include: traditional painting produced on frame-mounted silk; an eclectic array of theatre, puppetry, music and dance; religious sculpture; lacquerware and ceramics.

Vietnamese cuisine is especially varied - there are said to be nearly 500 different traditional dishes that include exotic meats (but consider carefully before you eat a rare animal) and fantastic vegetarian creations (often prepared to replicate meat and fish dishes). However, the staple of Vietnamese cuisine is plain white rice dressed up with a plethora of vegetables, fish (which is common in Vietnam), meat, spices and sauces. Spring rolls, noodles and steamed rice dumplings are popular snacks, and the ubiquitous soups include eel and vermicelli, shredded chicken and bitter soups. Fruit is abundant; some of the more unusual ones include green dragon fruit, jujube, khaki, longan, mangosteen, pomelo, three-seed cherry and water apple. Vietnamese coffee (ca phe phin) is very good; it's usually served very strong and very sweet.

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India: Final Words Part II

Just to close the India chapter one more time. I want to make sure that folks know that one of the most amazing things about being there for 100 days was to realize that India is a country intense with people who are trying to do all that each of us does everyday - to live their lives the best way they can. It is a country full of difference, full of complexity and full of contradictions. And, in all of this it is beautiful.

Also, Mindy sent me this song a year before I got on the plane and I listened to it last week. It applies today, more than ever...the last sentence tells me that Alanis definitely did go to India to be inspired.

THANK YOU INDIA: By Alanis Morissette

How about getting off of these antibiotics
How about stopping eating when I'm filled up
How about them transparent dangling carrots
How about that ever elusive kudo

Thank you India
Thank you terror
Thank you disillusionment
Thank you frailty
Thank you consequence
Thank you thank you silence

How about me not blaming you for everything
How about me enjoying the moment for once
How about how good it feels to finally forgive you
How about grieving it all one at a time

Thank you India
Thank you terror
Thank you disillusionment
Thank you frailty
Thank you consequence
Thank you thank you silence

The moment I let go of it was
The moment I got more than I could handle
The moment I jumped off of it was
The moment I touched down

How about no longer being masochistic
How about remembering your divinity
How about unabashedly bawling your eyes out
How about not equating death with stopping

Thank you India
Thank you providence
Thank you disillusionment
Thank you nothingness
Thank you clarity
Thank you thank you silence

Love to all. Next up - VIETNAM. REALLY!

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Saturday, January 07, 2006

FINAL ENTRY for India: Thank You India

I spent 100 days in India. In one word the experience was "intense." India is everything the travel books say that it is. Except, when you are there, in the middle of it all your head just spins and your world is rocked and you think - WHY THE HELL DID I EVER BUY THAT TRAVEL BOOK? To be in India I think one has to be centered - be aware of one's likings and dislinkings, be ready to spring into action when challenges arise, and be self-aware enough to just give in because India is bigger, harder and less afraid than the single traveler. I was none of those things when I arrived. Ok, maybe I was able to face challenges creatively, but the challenges that a place like India brough were pretty unimaginable.

I am so glad I did it. India was this mythical place for me for many years and I have never really known why it pulled me so much. Was it the poverty, corruption and people that reminded me of Brazil? Was it the colors, the odors or the sounds that I wanted to be part of from watching movies and talking to friends? Today, I feel India is demystified for me. It is more than I ever imagined it could be. It is worst than I ever thought it could be. It is everything at about 100 miles per hour, flying by relentlessly, and it still pulls me in, in so many ways.

Before going I had never really figured out why I wanted to be there so badly. I often thought why am I really committing 3 of my 7.5 months of phase 1 of my world travel to this one country? I did not know the answer, but I knew it was what I needed to do.

I now know why I had to go there when I did, at this point in my life, at this time. It is because India is about the only place on earth that could rival the fire that I feel inside and push and pull me to get in touch with all that goes on inside of me. India is raw. India does not give you and opportunity to opt out. It asks, tells, screams, yells and demands of you - tirelessly. India kicks your ass. I am not talking about the Buddha, the yoga, the meditation or the other thousands of ways people go to find themselves in India. I am talking about getting my ass kicked - dirt, passion, kindness, bad translation, scams, black chilli peppers, stomach aches with the runs, awakening cuisines and a religiosity beyond words and the most amazing sunsets on earth. For me India existed to remind me that being alive is the best thing in life. It kick started the process that lay dorment for so long, the process of getting back in touch with my inner core. For that I thank her from the bottom of my heart.

Some things that I hope to always remember about India, in no order.

-The fish in the South and in West Bengal with amazing curry.
-The barfis, milk cakes and other outstanding sweets.
-The kindness of Sarita's family members - from Uncle Arun and Aunt Sipra to her amazing parents.
-My intense need to GET OUT of there about 10 days before departure.
-The heart of the families I met on the train, the buses and the streets of India's little towns and quiet villages.
-The hatred I built (from my core) for dishonest public transportation drivers.
-The time with Drewzie - sudoku, room service and aloooooo.
-The endless search for coffee with Tricia all over the Indian south.
-The sun of Goa against my skin and the water of ocean at 4am.
-The smog of the cities and the brown liquid from my hands every time I washed them.
-Chai, chai and more chai.
-The amazing folks in my trip to the Himalayas.
-Romina and Maria's amazing passion and the time they and Tricia and I had laughing in Goa.
-Feisty Polish girls.
-Mysore Pak and Samolina.
-Hot 6 minute showers.
-OSHO's "active" meditation.
-The dynamic four - Atimati, Sammy, Kushal and me.
-The train rides from sleeper to first class.

And so much more that are captured in the 2,400 photos I have from my 100 days, the 15 or so recordings I have of street noises and messages from those who came and went, and the blogs that you have read.

Again, thank you India and all of those who have shared in 100 unforgettable days of my life.

Julio

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Thursday, January 05, 2006

Goodbye, India

Well, Gentle Readers, this is likely my last e-post from India for some time. We've laughed, we've cried. okay, you haven't really done any of that. Mostly, you sort of just read about me doing all that. And, I have to say, I didn't really cry that much. Well, that one day when I accidentally ate a hot chili pepper in my aloo-bindhi thing. ("Aloo-bindhi" is Hindi for "don't eat the hot chili pepper, you tourist schmuck." No, it is. I looked it up.) But it HAS been quite an experience, and I'm sad to see it end.
All right, that's not completely true. I'm sad, of course, to say goodbye to my little Brazilian Dynamo. And I'm sad to bring to a close my interactions with Sarita and Eddie and their family. And I'm sad to leave behind the sense of adventure and exploration that this experience has afforded me. But traveling in India is hard work, yo. It's not for the faint of heart. I'm not faint of heart. But I'd like to be. I miss being faint of heart. So I'm glad to have had the experience and, at the same time, I'm glad to return home. It's an odd feeling. There's no real word for that feeling in English, but in Hindi, it roughly translates to "don't eat the hot chili pepper, you tourist schmuck."
These moments are always an opportunity to get all ponderous and serious and say really clichéd things, like, for example, "Ohmygod, there are, like, SOOOOOOO many people in the world who, like, TOTALLY live in utter poverty and destitution! That totally sucks for them!" or "Seriously, y'all, we're all just one piece of the global puzzle, there's so much else out there that we TOTALLY can't even, like, comprehend or know about," or "Colonialization, like, inevitably leads to an exploited and utterly desolated population, laying waste to resources, culture and sovereignty, and it's not just stuff in old Merchant-Ivory movies, so we should, like, fully be aware of it when it's happening right freaking now right under our noses by our own administration," or "Holy crap! This McCurry Pan thing is delicious, I think I will eat three of them and spend my evening feeling really bloated and wondering if I'll end up barfing, which would be a total waste of good McCurry Pan." But I don't believe in clichés, so I will avoid saying stuff we all already know. Instead, I'll reflect on this trip and think of seeing my boyfriend dancing on screen in a Bollywood movie, spending hours imitating angry women who may or may not have been entitled to the service they demanded in an exclusive club, feeling the chilly wind in my hair while I ride in rickshaws through the streets of a city I'd only read about before, sitting in a warm living room listening to men tell adventure stories about stowing away on British merchant ships but knowing that these stories were absolutely true and watching Julio's face illuminated by the glittering combination of neon and Delhi moonlight when he has no idea I'm watching him.
I'm happy to go home. I miss you all. I'll talk to you soon.

Sunday, January 01, 2006

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

Wanted to wish everyone a HAPPY NEW YEAR! May all of your wished come true, and may you get some time off so that you could come visit me wherever you can.

We (Drew and I) celebrated the new year with Sarita, Eddie and their family. We had a wonderful meal and outstanding company. After we got back to the Taj, ordered up a couple of martinis and toasted our night away.

Kisses.

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